Comments on: Don’t Judge Others, Be Helpful Instead! http://LearnThis.ca/2008/05/dont-judge-others-be-helpful-instead/ A personal development site for self learning career, leadership and life improvement tips. Mon, 06 Sep 2010 21:35:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Mike King http://LearnThis.ca/2008/05/dont-judge-others-be-helpful-instead/#comment-7087 Mike King Tue, 10 Feb 2009 03:21:22 +0000 http://LearnThis.ca/?p=386#comment-7087 william, judgment is something that God has told us to do only when we can do so with a righteous judgment on ourselves first. There is plenty of content written about God's teachings on judgments and they all need to be taken in context, the same as my article here. Before arguing one side or the other, why not consider what I am talking about with judgments in this context. It's about helping others to make progress and go forward, to become better at things and a better person, instead of just criticizing them with no guidance or explanation. If you help them instead, you will indeed lead more people from the condemnation before God (as you put it). william, judgment is something that God has told us to do only when we can do so with a righteous judgment on ourselves first. There is plenty of content written about God’s teachings on judgments and they all need to be taken in context, the same as my article here. Before arguing one side or the other, why not consider what I am talking about with judgments in this context. It’s about helping others to make progress and go forward, to become better at things and a better person, instead of just criticizing them with no guidance or explanation. If you help them instead, you will indeed lead more people from the condemnation before God (as you put it).

]]> By: william http://LearnThis.ca/2008/05/dont-judge-others-be-helpful-instead/#comment-7081 william Mon, 09 Feb 2009 06:42:33 +0000 http://LearnThis.ca/?p=386#comment-7081 Judging others actions and words is required of God to His people . God has commanded us to Judge false prophets, teachers, Ministers and to Judge righteous Judgments , which means to Judge according to His precepts .we judge each day we rise up and start our day. we judge when we arrive at work. and we judge when we are traveling to and from our Homes , and let me also reminfd you as parents we judge what our children do and who they are with daily . why do you teach people not to Judge others ? do you want all of us to be in condemnation before God ? or are you concerned of offending another ? Judging others actions and words is required of God to His people . God has commanded us to Judge false prophets, teachers, Ministers and to Judge righteous Judgments , which means to Judge according to His precepts .we judge each day we rise up and start our day. we judge when we arrive at work. and we judge when we are traveling to and from our Homes , and let me also reminfd you as parents we judge what our children do and who they are with daily . why do you teach people not to Judge others ? do you want all of us to be in condemnation before God ? or are you concerned of offending another ?

]]> By: Vikash http://LearnThis.ca/2008/05/dont-judge-others-be-helpful-instead/#comment-5204 Vikash Sun, 13 Jul 2008 12:58:26 +0000 http://LearnThis.ca/?p=386#comment-5204 "Don't Judge others" is my personal favorite phrase... THis is really the most negative behavior we have. Thanks Mike to share with us. “Don’t Judge others” is my personal favorite phrase… THis is really the most negative behavior we have.

Thanks Mike to share with us.

]]> By: Shamelle @ The Enhance Life http://LearnThis.ca/2008/05/dont-judge-others-be-helpful-instead/#comment-4251 Shamelle @ The Enhance Life Fri, 23 May 2008 03:46:11 +0000 http://LearnThis.ca/?p=386#comment-4251 Very true indeed. I suppose for some of us, we "stamp" people in our mind. Its something that's very difficult to get over once it becomes a habit. Great tips! Thanks Very true indeed. I suppose for some of us, we “stamp” people in our mind. Its something that’s very difficult to get over once it becomes a habit.
Great tips! Thanks

]]> By: Mike King http://LearnThis.ca/2008/05/dont-judge-others-be-helpful-instead/#comment-4195 Mike King Wed, 21 May 2008 16:10:14 +0000 http://LearnThis.ca/?p=386#comment-4195 Excellent point Chris, looking at what we can learn from them even if we don't have any help to offer ourselves, is a great way to avoid that judgmental attitude. Thanks for the comment! Excellent point Chris, looking at what we can learn from them even if we don’t have any help to offer ourselves, is a great way to avoid that judgmental attitude. Thanks for the comment!

]]> By: Chris Kirk http://LearnThis.ca/2008/05/dont-judge-others-be-helpful-instead/#comment-4194 Chris Kirk Wed, 21 May 2008 15:57:39 +0000 http://LearnThis.ca/?p=386#comment-4194 I agree that taking the attitude of helpfulness can reduce our tendency towards judgement. Usually judgement comes from our incessent comparison to others and competition with others. When we take the attitude of helping, this eliminates the us versus them mentality. Another thing we might think about is approaching others with the attitude that we may be helpful by them. If we think that we can learn from even those we disagree with, it helps us avoid those negative emotions. I agree that taking the attitude of helpfulness can reduce our tendency towards judgement. Usually judgement comes from our incessent comparison to others and competition with others. When we take the attitude of helping, this eliminates the us versus them mentality. Another thing we might think about is approaching others with the attitude that we may be helpful by them. If we think that we can learn from even those we disagree with, it helps us avoid those negative emotions.

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