November 4th 2016
Life-Changing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has a Personality or Knows Someone Who Does
Author: Merrick Rosenberg
Well, this book is quite interesting and a very different than so many than I read. Although I don’t care for the subtext on the cover, I do believe that the underlying content of this book can be life changing and the wisdom has certainly helped me a tremendous amount in my life. Ultimately this book is all about behavioral styles, specifically, the DiSC model that is often hard for people to learn, remember and apply. I am fortunately to have learned and applied DiSC from Manager-Tools many years ago and I’ve used it heavily in my career and life to work with others much more easily and understand them. So, while I can’t say I learned much new ideas behind these styles in this book, I can say that this book teaches them VERY well, demonstrates through excellent examples and uses stories to teach the content, which is going to be a very good way to learn them for many people.
DiSC ultimately has four behavior styles and while everyone has some combination of all four, and uses different styles at different times, we also tend to have stronger most natural tendencies in one of the quadrants or styles of DiSC. Rosenberg uses birds to be metaphor’s for each style and they are:
A bird of action, that is quick to take charge, look at the big picture and be in control of any situation, no matter what the circumstances.
An often excited, forever optimistic and easily distracted bird that enjoys story telling, simply enjoying flight and to socialize with other birds.
A peaceful and kind bird that cares about others and wants to see everyone getting along. Dove’s don’t like to be in the spotlight themselves, but love to bring out the best of a whole team.
A super logic bird that will take the time to think, reflect and decide what to do, only after considering all options and having all the information at their wingtips.
Rosenberg includes 22 separate stories with the birds learning and realizing various lessons about understanding and working better with one another. Throughout these fables, the Chameleon character reminds me a bit of Yoda, he seems to always be in the right place at the the right time with words of wisdom and questions that drive all the birds to new levels of understanding of the various styles.
The book is very easy to read, short stories, with simple but powerful lessons in them all, that are very easy to relate with in the real world as well. In some ways the stories and characters seem a limit childish at times, but it never really takes away anything from the book, just because it is simple and easy to understand, which I can’t say DiSC is easy for people using its classical models of learning it.
Rosenberg also summarizes every chapter with tips from that story and there are TONS of great couple line points to remind you of the various benefits of using and applying DiSC methodology to help you with your relationships, your career and life. All in all, its a good book with good lessons and I personally love the DiSC model so the content earns a 5 stars from me but the book overall is a solid 4.