Using the 5 W Questions to Improve Your Training

September 8th 2008

Training is an important part of learning to master any type of skill or information.  You don’t need to be a teacher however, to train someone.  And actually, you don’t even need to know much about the content you want to teach.  This seems contradictory to many people and is a reason the most common reason why people don’t train others as often as they should.  Let’s explore some of the reasoning behind this and in my next article, I’ll outline how to approach training in an area, even if you are not an expert at it.

To look at this closer and understand an approach that works for training I’ll explore the classic five ‘W’ questions to consider the various angles about providing some kind of training.

Who Can You Train?

This is a great question to ask and without looking closely at it, people often feel that they don’t have anyone to train.  This just isn’t true!  There are many people in everyone’s lives and there are opportunities to train pretty much anyone you know.  You could train your children, your friends, your spouse, your family, your colleagues, strangers, and clients.  What is useful is to pay attention to all these questions when identifying who you can train.  Remember that you don’t need to have any authority or power over a person to train them. Train anyone!

What Can You Train?

Next is to consider what you can train.  I find the best way to identify this is not to look at what you DO know, but to look at what the person you can train wants to know!  This is critical to gaining their interest and desire to be trained and helps to eliminate the common misconception that you need to be an expert with something to train them.  Look at what they want or need to learn and then get into the training process (which I will cover in my How to Train Someone article next).

If you train an area of interest to someone else, they will welcome it, and enjoy it far more than if you try to teach an area you may know more about yourself, but they have no interest in.  Dale Carnegie’s classic advise to talk about the things that interest the other person apply wonderfully with training as well if you want to have success at it.

When is it a Good Time to Train?

Finding a good time to train is perhaps, the most difficult part of training.  You need to have a chance to prepare your training material and thoughts, as well to spend some time with the person you are training.  Getting a commitment for this is definitely preferred but not always practical.  If you can, schedule some specific time together to focus on the training.  When you do this will depend on some of the other questions like the who and what you are training.

I’d suggest to do training at a time of day that anyone involved is alert and attentive, so not late at night or early in the morning unless that is a good time for everyone.  Find a time that people are happy and willing to commit to so you are not planning the training to have inherent stumbling blocks before it even starts.

As I mentioned above, it’s not always practical to plan the training and if that’s not working, do not prevent you from training still.  Plan things more spontaneously and train on the spot whenever you can make it work.  Even segmented training at random times is far better than not doing it at all.  As for when to start or begin training? Don’t delay, begin the training NOW!

Where Should I Train?

Obviously, not everyone has a school classroom or facility to train from.  Nor would you want to use that for every kind of training and with all people.  Again, it is far more important to make the training comfortable and easy to do than to worry about the ideal place to train from.  Where you train can vary greatly and it can easily happen from your home or home of another person, at work in public or private sessions, or perhaps even over lunch or informal get together.  You can train over the phone, on the internet, by book or written content or even in a group in a public location.  Again, remember that it’s not that important where you train, its just important that you DO.

Why Should I Train?

This is my favorite question and often it’s the one with the most concerns.  Especially from people in the workplace and many people feel that knowledge is power and so to hoard that knowledge they are getting ahead.  Let me assure you, this is completely wrong.  As a manager, I know that the riskiest individuals in an organization are the ones that are sole experts and they are always on my mind to eliminate that trait from.  An organization wants to have multiple people available for any job so that loosing someone is no impact.  Let me assure you, if you can use training to make yourself redundant and provide help to your organization to balance out the risky ‘experts’, that is far more valuable than being an expert yourself.

Another important reason that is often overlooked is for learning yourself.  Teaching and training is the best way to both prove your understanding of a subject that you already know and also to learn more about it yourself.  As you discuss the topic, plan for it and research, you expand your own understanding in that area and so you are not only helping someone else learn, but you are definitely learning yourself.  The more time you spend training, the more you see where people have struggles, questions and concerns with the topic and it helps you to focus on addressing those areas in similar or related training for next time.  This helps you get more prepared and become more and more effective at your training.

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Don’t Get Caught In the Victim Cycle

September 3rd 2008

George Ambler just published an article on The Practice of Leadership called How to know when you’re not leading? In it he mentions that people fail when they act from the stance of a victim.  I couldn’t agree more and so wanted to elaborate my response a bit relating specifically to this victim perspective.

The Victim Cycle

The attitude that Goerge mentioned is an area that holds back leadership but not only that, it reinforces itself and puts us into a downward spiral or victim cycle.  This cycle includes several stages and behaviors that can easily be detected if you know what to look for.

  1. Denial and ignoring the problem
  2. Blame and finger pointing
  3. Excuses and defensive attitude
  4. Do nothing while expecting change

All of these are signs that someone is acting like a victim in a situation.  These are much more after the fact circumstances than the ones that George mentioned but I think they are also a lot easier to recognize, especially with others.  The two that are dominant in today’s business world are #2 and #3.

Excuses

There are millions of excuses being made everyday for poor results, lack of action, mistakes, failures, ignored problems and all other challenges we face in our world.  Some of the classic excuses that many people use (and hear) everyday are:

  • How was I supposed to know
  • Nobody told me that’s what you wanted
  • It’s not my fault
  • That’s not my job
  • I thought I told you
  • I’m too busy
  • That’s how we’ve always done it

These are just some of the samples you can watch for and hear everyday.  ALL of these are examples of someone active as a victim and being caught in the victim cycle.  They don’t take responsibility for things around them.

Run Your Own Life

Train yourself to avoid these types of excuses and catch yourself anytime you find yourself complaining so that you can look to make a change with that instead of standing by, watching things happen or falling into the victim trap.  I’ve mentioned it before in my articles on choosing your responses and actions, its not just about leadership, its about all your life choices.

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Book Review: Lead Well and Prosper

June 4th 2008

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Genre : Business & Investing
Author
: Nick McCormick

15 Successful Strategies for Becoming a Good Manager

McCormick has created a brilliant little management handbook here that is a perfect desk mate of any manager or want to be manager. He truly understands the problems with “typical” management and he offers a superb collection of steps and ways to turn yourself into a good manager. His theory behind what at first seems to be weak, that of just a “good” manager is that being a good manager is FAR more than what is typical in today’s workplace so comparatively, good is definitely good enough and will do you well to strive even for that. There isn’t any need to be a great manager because there is such a gap between the good and typical already that first gap is the important one. The book is nice and short and can be read in about an hour. It’s illustrated by Mark Morgan with a number of office cartoons that demonstrate typical behavior and thoughts that represent the gap that is often between a manager and a direct report. They are quite amusing and add some good humor to what otherwise is a more serious topic.

The 15 steps outlined (which are also the 15 short chapters of the book) are:

  1. Adopt a Serving Attitude
  2. Teach
  3. Provide Honest and Timely Feedback
  4. Share Information
  5. Listen
  6. Treat People Like Human Beings
  7. Set Goals, Plan, and Execute
  8. Learn
  9. Do the Right Thing
  10. Embrace the Uncomfortable
  11. Clean Up Your Own House First
  12. Persist
  13. Do What You Say You’ll Do
  14. Always Follow Up
  15. Plan Your Week

These steps cover all aspects of management and McCormick captures them into a set of steps and things you can actually do. I think the book is also valuable to any leader and even just for life tips as you can see, the steps listed are useful for relationships and other areas of life outside of work and management. The focus in the book however, is still certainly for managers. As I mentioned, the subtitle for becoming good manager is an understatement. Anyone who does all of these steps and does them well is going to be a great manager. None of them are easy, but they are all effective and are required at least at some level to be a good manager.

I particularly love how McCormick focuses so many areas on the fact that you are serving others as a manager and that your directs are real people, with real feelings and their own minds. They aren’t robots, shouldn’t be treated like a possession and that you will only succeed as a manager through the work of those people you work for (yes, you do work for them as a manager)! One other thing I really like that’s in the book is a 31 question survey to measure if you’re a good manager. I did well on that but it also pointed out a few areas I can focus on to improve. I’ve decided that each month, I will make sure to take on one of those questions I don’t yet do and make it happen that month. I plan to get to the point where I can honestly answer yes to all the questions about being a good manager and the book is definitely an excellent guide to help understand how to do that.

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Being Humble: Why Bother Learning to be Humble?

March 14th 2008

Being Humble: Why Bother Learning to be Humble?
If you missed them, the previous 2 articles in this short series are

Part 1 – Being Humble: What does that mean?
Part 2 – Being Humble: Action Steps to Be More Humble

This article is going to look at why someone would bother to learn to be humble. What are the advantages and reasons to being humble in your career and life.

First of all, the traits of a humble person are highly valued and seen positively. This is for various reasons and I’ve separated those into three main categories here.

Humble Leadership

I started out planning this article by looking specifically at humble leadership and as I thought more about being humble, I realized, it is so much bigger than that, which is is why it grew into a short series and why there are several categories now in this article. As for the leadership angle however, being humble is a very attractive trait of many leaders and is often named as one of the most important leadership qualities. Leaders need the ability to recognize others, show appreciation to others, never take credit and to always take the blame for the benefit of a team. These go hand in hand with being humble so its easy to understand why humble leaders are easily respected.

If you look through the list of action steps from part 2 , you can see that by listening, not judging, showing appreciation, giving credit and thanking others are things to be more humble, these are also all important leadership traits. Leadership is not power and so it doesn’t need showmanship, authority or dominance to lead others. What it takes, is influence , and influence is achieved by having the ability and motivation to make an impact at a personal, social and structural level.

So, if you are looking to be a better leader, learning to be a humble one can make a significant different in how others see you, follow you and with the influence you have.

A Humble Character

Being humble is not only effective to be a leader, but it is also useful for developing your overall character. Being humble will help you to focus on others instead of yourself which is a very noble character trait and will be liked by all who experience or see it. When people see how you respond to others and don’t attempt to overshadow them or dominate them in any way, you will make yourself far more approachable. This can lead to many great things but will likely have the biggest positive impact on how easily or quickly you build relationships. People generally don’t develop bad first impressions of someone who is humble and its generally easier for a humble person to earn the respect of others.

Think about your first impressions of someone who is showy, pompous, or arrogant when you meet them. Is it easier of harder for that person to earn your respect than a humble person? What do you think of someone when they take credit or make themselves look good at the expense of others? Its not really a valuable character trait to have.

Humble Spirituality

I find that being humble is so much easier in the presence of God. I find that I’m just naturally more humble when talking with people about spiritual topics. I’m not sure exactly why this is, maybe its because I really know nothing, am more careful to not judge others or ideas, or simply find God to be rather overwhelming. In any case, I know that Jesus lived a very humble life and there are many things to be learned from Him in how to be more humble. These spiritual thoughts provide a great sense of inner peace to me and is a strong reason why I want to learn to be more humble.

And whoever exalts himself will be humbled , and whoever humbles himself will be exalted. Mat thew 23:12

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My favorite personal development resources

January 1st 2008

cd-resources.jpgThe purpose of this blog is to provide personal development methods and tips, and these involve articles, lists, stories, books and other things. So, I wanted to share some of the resources I use and enjoy online to my readers. This article highlights some of my favorite resources online (I read many more than just these) for personal development content in life and business. I know they will be useful to you as well. Feel free to add comments with your favorite resources.

#1: Books. Books. Books. This is THE best resource I can possibly recommend. I have many recommended book reviews here if you use this search.

#2: Manager Tools weekly management podcasts(http://www.manager-tools.com). Mike Auzenne and Mark Horstman have created a stunning amount of brilliant content that they describe as, “… a weekly podcast focused on helping you become a more effective manager and leader.” They deliver actionable content each week in podcasts, host amazing conferences and offer premium content on their site. I highly recommend it to any aspiring leader/manager.

#3: Steve Pavlina’s Personal Development Site/Blog (http://www.stevepavlina.com). Steve simply has a huge amount of great content on his site and blog. Its an excellent resource and covers many of the same topics and categories that I write about. Definitely worth spending some time at as well.

#4: Personal MBA (http://personalmba.com). Another great resource site where Josh has collected a batch of recommended business books and additional resources to get you on your way to learning everything you need to learn about business management, without the cost of tuition. This site is a wonderful option to paying for a MBA program. I’ve found his site online after reading many of the same books and definitely agree with most of his book selections.

#5: Other blogs and sites. These are some of my other bookmarks and blogs I read. Nothing in order, just a great source of content from various other sites:

#6: Audio books, seminars and motivational speakers are other great resources for stepping up your capability, lifestyle and attitude to get more out of life. Some of the resources/individuals in this category I’ve really enjoyed are:

  • Brian Tracy
  • Anthony Robbins
  • Earl Nightingale
  • Executive Online Book Summaries

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Passion: Which came first, learning or passion?

December 19th 2007

Passion

What is Passion?

I’m not sure about each of you, but I know that I get very passionate about things I learn. Or is it that I have the passion for those things and so I learn them? Well, I really don’t know, probably a bit of both. I do however, find it very interesting how much I personally find that my learning and passions align so much in my life. Whether its a similarities in my work and personal life or how I explore books, I continually see alignment of how the things I learn apply in so many areas of my life. Those are the areas I’m most passionate about and it continues to feed the passion in a strengthening cycle. The more I learn about something, the more I enjoy it, and so then the more I want to learn even more about it.

Passion Roadblocks

I’ve spent a lot of time reading leadership/management and business books to improve my career and at the same time, most of the authors I’ve enjoyed most mix the business life with a personal touch and write about applying this in your personal life as well. Changing bad habits and improving one self cannot happen solely in the workplace even if business books, performance reviews, your boss and your company are pretty much only concerned only about your day life at the office. Your actions, mannerisms, character and passions are not completely separable from your personal life no matter how hard you try. In order to change these things, you need to change them everywhere in your life. That’s where passion often plays its part. A passion can be so strong it will steer every area of your life, home and work and can drive a person to learn and follow more about that area of desire.

Using Passion

Now, I’m talking about a positive passion, something to improve your life or the life of others. Recognizing this, understanding it, following it and learning from it are then different for each person. Using a passion in your life can lead to an extremely successful meaningful life. Its a sad fact how many people in this world simply “get by” in life and don’t make the most of it. One way to do this is to have and use your passions in life to be more joyful and to live with purpose and meaning. I’m planning to explore the topic of passion in several upcoming articles.

See Part 2: Passion: Find Your Passions
See Part 3: Passion: Express Your Passions

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